We ended up slipping-no one got hurt, which was lucky, but it wasn’t good and left a bruise on her butt!” -Dave* Like, don’t do things where you hold her up, stuff where no one is hanging onto a bench or wall or something stable on the floor of the tub. “I was having shower sex with my girlfriend for the first time and we wanted to do really intense stuff like in a bedroom-but DON’T, because it’s really different and not safe. Tip: Make sure your toys are waterproof before you take them in the shower. The vibrating with the shower head is another thing you can do instead of toys for her.” -Devin “Sometimes my GF will bring toys into the shower with us, like different vibrators and rings and stuff for more sensations there. This also helps with not getting water in either of our faces, which is a real mood killer.” - Simon* Bring toys into the shower. So I usually position myself that the water is coming down on my back or my girlfriend’s. “You need friction when you have sex, and when you have all that water sloshing around your dick and her vagina, you can’t actually get that friction. Plus, you can do more moves when using the bench-like you can do reverse cowgirl just her on top, doggy, and she can hold the bench.” -Ryan* Don’t have the shower head pointing directly on your junk.
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“If you have a bench in the shower, use it, because it gives balance and makes you more stable so you don’t slip and fall in the shower. But silicone is thicker, more likely to stay, and can help when you actually penetrate.” -Joe* Use the bench.
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Water-based lubes will wash away immediately. That’s why you want to use silicone-lube while in the shower. “Even if she’s incredibly turned on and already wet, the additional water can kinda mess with that.